I (for now) share happy story with (little tinny though) spiders. Me and my husband couldn’t have kids for quite long time (well at least 3 years of your marriage seamed long time to me) and then one day we found little spider climbing the bath in the bathroom. If we wouldn’t see it one of us whould wash it into the canal and it’d surely die. My husband saved it putting it out on the shelf. Very short time after that I’ve got pregnant and 9 months later (in somehow magical 1999) we’ve got a strong healthy boy. He’s teenager now, devoted to computers, gaming and quite a bit of science. He studies languages (more or less kind of SSi way just that he doesn’t take any (not even our) lessons but just picks up what he’s hearing) and he knows a little bit of languages of his interest (Janapese, English (oh, well, that one he learns at school too but is very frustrated when there’s asked from him to literally memorize something) etc …
Yah, prety offtopic my answer too, but since we’re at spiders at the moment … well that saved spider didn’t have blue glowish legs though. 
And, yes, please @YDraigGoch, share your pics in that topic. @ramblingjohn would really be glad to see them. If you don’t know Cymraeg terms for those creatures, there’s surely someone who would find them for you. Welcome there in What’s Outside.